Although pick-up lines have, over time, gained a reputation for being corny, embarrassing, and at times, creating unnecessary pressure in the early stages of an interaction, they remain a hallowed art that can help whoever uses them create a lasting first impression.
So whether you are making the cold approach or have matched with a cute girl on a dating app, a pick-up line can help establish an instant connection and break the early awkwardness when starting an interaction with a potential date.
Here are some pick-up lines that can help you stand out:
Do you have a map? Because I just got lost in your eyes
This one incorporates an important component—complimenting her eyes—while also communicating that you are interested in her.
Make sure that she indeed has eyes that deserve such a compliment; otherwise, she will see—pardon the pun—right through your lie.
It’s a good thing I have my library card because I’m totally checking you out
This is a little risqué and very dependent on the environment. You might find it challenging to land it if neither of you is a student and if she does not take your suggestion of checking her out well.
Nevertheless, if pulled off with confidence, it will not fail.
What’s your favourite drink? I’m asking so I know what to buy you on our first date.
This is pretty straightforward and effective. It communicates your goal, which is to get a date, and shows interest in knowing something about her, which is her favourite drink.
123456789. The only number I don’t see here is yours
How about a super cheesy and overused one?
If she likes you, this one never fails. Remember, she is probably appreciating the effort more than the content of the pick-up line.
I don’t know your name, but I’m sure it’s just as beautiful as you are.
This does not need much elaboration. It delivers a compliment, and when done with the right tone, eye contact, and body language, it is likely to get her hooked immediately.
I’ve heard it said that kissing is the ‘language of love.’ Would you care to have a conversation with me about it sometime?
This is a powerful and effective one to send via text or direct messaging on a dating app. It communicates interest in getting to know her and plans for a date.
I think there’s something wrong with my phone. Could you try calling it to see if it works?
Another effective one for real-life approaches and a sure way of getting her number. It is direct and can work well when delivered confidently.
If I had a nickel for every time I saw someone as beautiful as you, I’d still only have $.05
It's funny, it complements her, and it makes her feel special. This one works well when you have already made a connection before approaching her, as it can come off as insincere if not done right.
Just curious—if you’re here, who’s running heaven?
Probably the cheesiest and corniest one yet, but hey, it's about being confident and having fun.
Can we snap a pic so I can show all my friends what I want my next relationship to look like?
A good line that communicates seriousness and a willingness to take things to the next step.
This can help you stand out as it shows you are not simply looking for something short-term.
Do you know what The Little Mermaid and I have in common? We both want to be a part of your world
If you happen to find someone who loves The Little Mermaid, this one can help you relate to them. It also provides a template to create pick-up lines based on things she likes, as it communicates attention to detail.
If you could be anywhere in the world, doing anything you wanted, where would we be?
A pick-up line should help you get the conversation going, and this is perhaps one of the best at achieving this. Be careful to read the body language as it can help inform how to guide the follow-up question or response.
Are you a cookie? Because I’m usually only attracted to things that are sweet
Here’s a cute one that will make her smile with sweetness.
I’m cold, and you’re hot, wanna warm me up?
How risqué do you want to get?
I’m from the north, but you seem like you’d do well down south.
This should get the sexy going if you can land it well.
Remember, the majority of what makes a good pick-up line is delivery.
Confidence is key, and it can make even the riskiest pick-up lines work. She is likely to mirror your body language, including how confident you are and how at ease you are.
Additionally, aim for authenticity.
A pick-up line that fits the situation and environment is more likely to be well received, and she will appreciate your creativity and attention to detail.
Therefore, make sure you are confident in yourself and do not be too concerned about rejection or the content of the line.
