Pleasing women sexually is not "really" that hard if you know what you are going for and have an open conversation with them about their preferences.
Well, it is not that easy per se because there is so much that goes into holding sexually stimulating conversations with women and pleasing them sexually.
The common complaints from most women are always, "Men do not know where the clitoris is," "Men penetrate without enough foreplay," and "Men do not care about their orgasms."
Well, as bizarre as it sounds, the statements are true for many women because most men overlook women's enjoyment and ignore what works for them during intimacy most of the time.
Most women even fail to provide feedback in such situations for obvious reasons.
So, how can you please a woman sexually?
Communicate with Her
There is this adage that women love and fall in love with what they hear. It is actually true, at least, based on confessions from men in fruitful and satisfying relationships.
Women's sexual satisfaction rests on communication because engaging them about everything unlocks their desires, preferences, and limitations.
Communication helps you understand what your woman needs. It helps her connect with you emotionally because it reinforces the belief that you are her safe space.
If you do not know how to initiate such conversations, you can lead with questions like, "What do you enjoy most during sex?" "What turns you on the most?"
Communication also entails listening to her and noting boundaries and things she does not like.
Active listening involves paying attention to the verbal and non-verbal cues. Watch her body movements with each touch and be open to her about your fantasies.
Remember, having an ongoing relationship does not translate to automatic consent.
If you are not sure or she winces/cringes, ask for consent as her pleasure matters. If the fantasy is not shared, the experience can be traumatising.
Open conversation about your fantasies can deepen your connection and ensure the sexual experience is more than satisfying for you beyond your comfort levels.
Invest in Emotional Connection
Women's love and sexual satisfaction language is close to non-existent without emotional intimacy.
Even though we all know that foreplay is critical to sexual satisfaction, a little emotional intimacy is an added advantage for more satisfying sex.
The secret is to build it outside the bedroom and use everything you have to charm her with love and affection.
Through this connection, you can judge whether she trusts you and is ready to feel vulnerable around you.
For most women, their emotional connection with you carries more weight than physical foreplay.
This implies taking your time to understand them outside the bedroom and creating an environment that warms them up for the anticipated sexual activity.
Understanding Women's Response to Sex and Sexual Advances
It is no secret that women enjoy dirty and witty conversations before or even during sex. Naughty words work magic for many women. If you are not sure about this, you can go with compliments.
Make funny and sexy comments about her body. Tell her how much looking at her turns you on and makes you want to make love to her.
Let her know how much you enjoyed the experience and cannot wait to do it again. Here are a few pointers:
Foreplay
You need to understand that this is the gateway to sexual readiness and satisfaction for women. Your make-out session should take a few minutes to ensure you are in sync with her. If she is open to sensual massage or masturbation, be open to it and flow with it.
You can also introduce her to other things like lubricants and toys to make the session more enjoyable.
Clitoral and G-spot Stimulation
These two as arguably the most sensitive parts of the female body when it comes to sexual stimulation.
They have several nerve endings and become even more sensitive with perfect stimulation.
For a woman to achieve orgasm or even squirt, you need to understand the body and locate these sweet spots before penetration. You can even use toys for an enhanced sensual feel.
Vaginal penetration and Sex Positions
Well, these should be the icing on the cake! The work is done; all you need to do is to amplify the feeling and unleash the waterworks.
Vaginal stimulation also entails locating the G-spot and hitting it from different angles. Remember, different sex positions generate different sensual effects on women.
Always go for a style that she feels comfortable with, as this should be your priority. Most women love inventive sex positions. You can try doggy style, cowgirl, reverse cowgirl and many others.
Always be mindful of what she considers pleasurable and pay attention to her as sexual experience requires patience, attention, and enjoyment for both.
Maintain good hygiene and boost your sexual appeal to be attractive to women. Also, invest in your physical fitness, as this can help you satisfy your woman better.
