‘Squirting’ is always an interesting topic because of the fascinating arguments people advance to explain what it is, how to achieve it, and why it is different for every woman.
The erotic bliss people witness or experience, at least in porn movies, described as squirting is somewhat different from squirting in real life because every woman climaxes and fires the liquids with varying tempos and quantities.
However, we can ascertain that squirting is real, and it is usually an intense experience with even more fluids as it goes beyond just getting wet and producing a milky discharge.
Definition-wise, experts agree that squirting is the expulsion of liquid in brief and quick bursts during extreme arousal or orgasm in women, even though they disagree on whether the liquid is pee or not.
Some people refer to squirting as female ejaculation. In contrast, others disagree, arguing that squirting is more than ejaculation, which is limited to vaginal lubrication for and during sex.
So, before we get into the fine details of how to squirt, let us understand what the fluid is, at least based on the composition.
The liquid women gush out during squirting contains creatinine and urea in low concentrations but has high levels of prostatic acid phosphate and prostatic-specific antigens alongside fructose and glucose.
In simple terms, the liquid is not entirely urine, but our current focus is to explore ways to help you achieve or at least make you want to squirt.
Relax and get Ready
It is more satisfying to approach this with some sense of curiosity and a blend of playfulness to calm your nerves and enjoy the surprise when it eventually comes.
However, the golden rule is to get yourself comfortable to eliminate tension from your body. I would recommend selecting the part of your house that is more relaxing and waterproofing the surface beneath you for a start.
If you are trying this for the first time, the pressure can be immense if you do not communicate your desires with your partner or if you do not clear your head.
Do not get discouraged when it does not happen on the first attempt because you are on a mission to explore new niches in your pleasure and enjoyment journey during sex.
Your pleasure and comfort are paramount because your body responds better when relaxed.
Masturbating?
If having a partner in the room gives you additional pressure and makes you worry about the experience, self-pleasuring is also an essential way of exploring if you can squirt.
After getting comfortable, take your time to understand what works best for you because going solo allows you to focus on how you feel with every touch.
Experts recommend being compassionate with yourself and taking short breaks during the stimulation to make the effect even more pronounced.
Based on confessions, some people squirted while tipsy because alcohol helped soften the extra edge that comes with complete sobriety.
You can also take a glass of your preferred wine or drink to enhance the feeling before embarking on the journey to engage your G-spot.
From experience, others recommend masturbation to help you master your pleasure pathways, as this strengthens the relationship between your brain and nerve endings in your favourite spots.
Locate the G-spot
Hearing the word “G-spot” for the first time here is okay. It is also okay not to know where to find it or what it does.
Think of it as a pleasure point inside the vagina with even more stimulation effect than the clitoris! Intriguing, right? Simply locating and stroking the G-spot is enough to help some people squirt because giving love to this erogenous zone is more than orgasmic.
Here is a tip on how you can locate your G-spot: lie on your back (if with a partner) or sit with legs open (if alone) and slide the middle finger into the vagina while targeting the belly-side vaginal walls till you feel an enhanced stimulation with every massage at a specific place.
As you stroke the G-spot, you can also use the index finger or other toys to stimulate the clitoris for extra pleasure while relaxing your pelvic floor muscles to enhance your chances of squirting.
Use toys and Pace Yourself
Adding toys can make the experience wholesome because these gadgets offer new ways to stimulate pleasure.
Pro tip: During sex, you can hold a vibrator to your clit as your partner penetrates you with the penis.
If you are masturbating, you can use a dildo. If you want to sit back and relax while enjoying the feeling, you can go for hands-free clit vibrators.
You can never go wrong with dual stimulation toys that give you full sensation with every pulsating motion on your erogenous zones.
Overthinking during this experience can make squirting even more complex as it takes away relaxation and possible waterworks.
As you progress, remember to avoid resisting any urge to pee because clenching muscles to avoid peeing prevents squirting.
